How to Know if a Shy Girl Likes You

How to Know if a Shy Girl Likes You
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Something I struggled with in high school was knowing if a shy girl liked me. I never knew for a fact if a girl was into me or if I was imaging it and it was all in my head. If I had known what I know now I would have dated so many girls in high school it would be unreal. If you feel like you don’t know if a certain girl like you, don’t worry man I got you!. Nobody is born knowing it all, no shame here. I will show you how to know if a shy girl likes you. I’ll save you years of headaches and show you the best ways to know if that shy girl you’ve been noticing is actually into you or not. Don’t make the same mistake I made back in high school and don’t waste time… life is short.


This is the first and most important sign you have to look for if you want to know for a fact if a shy girl likes you.

Shy girls will never initiate contact with you, EVER.

Instead, they’ll check you out when you aren’t looking their way. They do this because they’re not sure if you like them back and are too shy to make it obvious. This is something you can easily notice and catch them every single time doing.

You can even ask your friends to tell you if she’s looking at you to know for certain and not make her feel bad…


This one is a dead give away…You’ll notice her group of friends constantly looking at you laughing and then looking away.

Shy girls are only SHY around you but when they’re with their friends, their true confident personality comes out. You can now for a fact that you’re the main topic of conversation whenever they are together.

Ask yourself…

Why would her friends keep looking at you if you don’t even know them?

It’s because, in reality, they know more about you than you think. You better believe that this “shy” girl has already gone to every social media, to every post that you’ve made and seen every single picture… along with her friends.

The reason their friends look, giggle and look away, is because…they, my friend…know everything about you.


Has it ever happened to you that you cross paths with the same girl over and over and over?

There’s a 60% chance that she might be into you.

This is what the shy girl does…She’s an expert at it…

Because of her shy personality, she’ll want to be near you every opportunity she gets. In her mind, she doesn’t want you to find out that she likes you. Shy girls can’t deal with rejection, they will do whatever it takes to make you not know they’re madly in love with you.

But their attraction is more powerful, they can’t fight their nature so they intentionally go where you go to be near you and have one more opportunity to see you


Shy girls don’t know how to act around their crush. It’s as if they change their personality the moment they see you. They don’t want to make their feeling for you obvious and have to take the risk of getting rejected if you don’t feel the same way.

This is why shy girls act a bit cold and neutral when they’re around you. It’s not because they don’t like you, but because they don’t want to get hurt. So they put up a “shield” and come off as cold or sometimes even uninterested, when in fact they’re crazy for you.

So how do you know if she is faking it and she’s acting uninterested because she’s shy?

The simplest way is to observe how she acts with other people. If you notice that she’s confident and talkative with everybody else but you, then that might be the only clue you need..


Now, this sign is super obvious but you can only detect it when you are talking to her one on one.

I don’t know if it’s me or not but when girls are crazy for you and they don’t wanna show it you can always rely on the “manga” eyes. The “manga eyes” is when you’re making eye contact with a girl and you see her eyes light up.

Her eyes somehow increase in brightness and you feel this weird sensation that she would do anything for you. Her eyes literally look like those eyes in the manga cartoons.

This is the ultimate sign, my friend… they may hide everything else but when you see her eyes light up you can be 100% sure this shy girl is madly in love with you.


Now to recap this are the best ways to know if the shy girl you’ve been checking out lately is actually into you or not.

  • 1. You catch her staring at you
  • 2. Her friends stare at you and giggle
  • 3. You see her EVERYWHERE
  • 4. She acts uninterested
  • 5. Her eyes light up when talking to you 

Now, don’t waste time and wait for her to break the ice. Shy girls will rarely initiate any type of conversation. It’s your job as a man to have the balls and break the ice… especially now that you know the signs.

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