How to Be More Attractive: 7 Ways to Become a Girl Magnet

How to Be More Attractive: 7 Ways to Become a Girl Magnet
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Learning how to be more attractive to the opposite sex is something a man should strive for in his life. Always improving the way you are in relation to your value to the opposite sex will not only make you more confident but will manifest itself in an abundance of women.You will literally become a chick magnet in your own right! But that will never happen if you insist on being like “most men”.

What Do Most Men Do?

Most men:

  • Think that one is born attractive and that there is nothing they can do to change their luck.
  • Just conform to the way they are and resign to the way women react to them.
  • Blame the exterior world for feeling undesirable instead of doing something about it.
  • Envy the attractive guys that get all the attention instead of learning from them and improving themselves.

If you were or are like “most men” but have decided to finally do something about your situation and become the most attractive version of yourself, you are in for a treat.

In this article I will show you how to be more attractive to girls by showing you the top 7 things you can do to be more desirable and end up being the type of guy hot girls go for.

1. Love Yourself

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The first thing you have to fix in yourself before anything is self-love. Listen to me and listen to me good,


Got it?

Okay, good..

If you want to learn how to be more attractive, then loving yourself is crucial. Why would anyone be attracted to you if you don’t even like yourself, it is insanity!

Now you may be asking…How do I start loving myself?

Loving yourself means accepting who you are right at this moment.It’s talking to yourself in a loving way instead of treating your own self like garbage. Nobody is saying that you should love the way you are because you are conforming to the fact that you can’t change it, but to love who you are at this moment just the way you are and knowing that you can always be better in the future.

A good way to practice self-love is by looking at yourself in the mirror, stare at your own eyes and truly, for the first time in your life, realize that your life so far has been a rollercoaster ride and somehow you are still here fighting. Take a deep breath and send love to yourself, feel it deep within. Do this for a couple of weeks and eventually, you’ll start loving who you are in a healthy and natural way.

2. Be in Shape

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Being fit is not about looking like the guys on fitness magazines but about being the type of guy who:

  • respects his body enough to maintain it in top condition.
  • Controls his body and mind.
  • Goes after his goals by being disciplined.
  • Is capable of protecting his loved ones at any moment.

You see… being fit is more than looking good and having a nice set of rocking arms. It’s more about the type of guy you have to be to maintain a fit physique during the madness of life. Don’t get me wrong, girls love touching your body and are sexually aroused by the hardness of your chest but trust me when I tell you this:

Girls are attracted to the qualities that you have that they can get something from.

  • Being disrespectful to your own body and maintaining it in bad shape only tells her that you won’t respect her either.
  • Not being in control of your mind and body only tells her that you can’t deal with life’s problems and that you are weak.
  • Not being disciplined and not going after your goals only tells her that you are a weak man and not strong enough to go after what you want.
  • Being fat and unfit only tells her that in the moment when some other man disrespects her you won’t be able to defend her.

So why the fuck would she even consider being with you if she’s better off alone?

3. Get Your Money Right

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The people that said that money didn’t matter or that money was not important to be happy were clearly poor.

Having money in your bank account is important if you want to be more attractive to women because money equals power and power equals freedom. It’s not about the things you can buy her but about the qualities ‘having a good amount of money’ give you.

The thing you get when you have a lot of money is POWER.

  • Power to do whatever you want with your life.
  • Deciding what kind of food to eat everyday.
  • Power to see the world.
  • The means to help others in a bigger scale.
  • The option to decide where your kids go to school.
  • The power to have any experience you want.
  • Ability to save time.
  • The fucking power to be free.
  • Power to increase your survival rate.

How can girls not be attracted to all of the benefits being with a powerful guys gets them. They would be crazy to not be attracted to the rich guy, they would be literally going against their nature and thus endangering their own survival.

The bottom line is:


Do whatever the fuck you have to do to have money in your bank account.

4. Find Your Passion

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80% of people die with never, ever, being able to find their true calling in life, their PASSION.

Not because they were unlucky or because they didn’t have one, but because they didn’t have the balls to take risks in their lives.

Finding your passion in life should be a priority in your life and once you find it you should do whatever the fuck you need to do to spend the rest of your life doing it.

Why Passionate Men are More Attractive?

Passionate men are attractive to women because deep down they can sense the man is a risk taker and has the balls to be who he is without caring about the consequences. This is why it’s common to see girls with broke musicians or artists. The guy can be broke but his passion makes him unique and interesting. The girl knows this guy is himself at all moments and follows his heart.

Finding your passion also makes you happy. Have you ever heard a passionate person speak? It is as if they had fire on their chests, you can sense the energy they emit, it’s inspiring.

5. Be a Leader

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Being a leader is one of the most attractive qualities a guy can have to attract a girl.

Have you ever seen the girl in the class wanting to fuck the teacher? Or the secretary wanting to suck the boss’s cock? Or maybe the tourist girl throwing herself at the foreign tour guide?

We see these things all over the place because they are real.

Women are attracted to men that are leaders.

Being a leader means being the guy friends respect and follow or it can mean being the leader of your own fucking life.

Girls by nature are followers and enjoy having a strong leader in their lives. When they’re little they have the father figure, the head of the family, ‘the leader’ but once they become adults they look for the same leader figure in their sexual partner.

There is nothing more attractive to a girl than seeing a man lead another group of men. It shows her that if a group of men are willing to follow your directions then she must also do the same.

6. Have Goals

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Having goals in your life shows girls that you take your life seriously, in other words, your survival rate is very high.

Setting goals and accomplishing them only tell her that if she was going to have sex with you or if she’d manage to be in a relationship with you she’d be well taken care of.

Even if it’s not true at all and you guys have a one night stand she’d still be 
subconsciously attracted to you for these exact same reasons, it is imprinted in her genetic code.

7. Be A Man

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The bottom line is that whoever created us created the man to be attracted to the woman and the woman to be attracted to the man. Meaning that if you are not getting girls attracted to you then you might not be acting like a man.

See, we humans tend to overcomplicate shit for no reason and think things are harder than they truly are.

Healthy women were designed to have sex with healthy men and have babies with them.

The reason why you are not attractive to them is simply because you are not hitting the attraction triggers they have.

If I can only leave you with one thing here that will help you tons is:


Whatever that means to you. Act like a man, think like a man, speak like a man, eat like a man, fuck like a man…

If you manage to act like a man in every aspect of your life you will end up with more girls than you can handle. This is not me promising you anything, this is me telling you that this is cause and effect nothing more.

The more of a man you are = the more women will want to fuck you.


Now stop overthinking shit and become more of who you were meant to be!

A fucking hunter, a warrior

The motherfucking man!

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