How to Know if a Girl is an Attention Whore: 35 Tell-Tale Signs

How to Know if a Girl is an Attention Whore: 35 Tell-Tale Signs
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We’ve all known this type of girl: 

Hot, attractive, flirty, charismatic, funny, sexy, popular and attention seeking. She’s the type of girl that seems to spend all of her time on Instagram and every time someone comments on one of her pictures she gets an immediate adrenaline rush. The type of girl that posts pictures of her sweet, adorable face and underneath writes a deep, thoughtful quote of an ancient philosopher she’s never heard. You know her right? …Me too…The infamous ATTENTION WHORE!

I’m 25 years old as I write this article and am 100% certain that if I had known some of the signs I’m about to write below, I would have saved myself a lot of precious time and many frustrating “blue balls” incidents caused by multiple atention whores.

If you are currently suspicious that the girl you’re seeing is an attention whore, but you aren’t 100% sure yet, maybe the following 35 signs will help you figure out if she is one or not, once and for all…

They Don’t Change…

I have met many attention whores throughout the years and let me tell you something…

As much as you’d like to think that they can change or perhaps that you could change them, let me be the one to burst out your bubble and tell you that girls of this caliber never, EVER, change.

Therefore, it is now my duty to recommend to you that you break up with her as soon as possible or if not yet dating, to disappear and run far, far away.

These types of girls are so self-centered and energy draining that you will inevitably end up being part of her circus, and waste many, many precious hours of the best years of your life. When instead, you could be spending it with a nice, cute, sexy, intelligent, down to earth girl that is the exact opposite of the infamous attention whore.

PS: It is widely recommended that if you do decide that she is indeed an attention whore and prove that your suspicions were right, that you bang her one last time before dumping her ;D.


The 35 Signs a Girl is an Attention Whore

an attention whore taking a selfie.

1.Takes too many selfies

2. Commonly has more male friends than female friends

3. Is always “online”

4. Takes photos of her ass on social media

5. The only pictures on her feed are of her face

6. Half-naked pictures on Instagram are her go to (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: EXPERT)

7. Always starts unnecessary drama

8. Plays the victim in any discussion

9. Will do anything to get sympathy or attention

10. Checks in on facebook everywhere she goes

11. She captions her pic “I know I look ugly but… whatever” (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: LEGENDARY)

12. She posts #nomakeup knowing she looks good cuz of the convenient lighting

13. Tells her problems to just about everyone

14. She’s always at the center of a group-picture

15. She is nice to everyone because she wants their attention

16. If she’s not the center of attention at a gathering she’s immediately “bored” (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: BEGINNER)

17. Brags about how she makes guys pay for her

And The List Goes On…

18. Posts pics saying” I look so ugly” knowing she looks hot af

19. Talks about all the guys that DM her and how “annoying” it is

20. She dances with your boys at parties in front of you

21. Flirts with male workers to get free shit

22. Fishing for compliments is her number 1 priority, her self esteem depends on it.

23. Trying to Make you jealous comes so easy to her

24. She often throws tantrums when things don’t go her way

25. Bribes you with sex

26. She says you work too much when you clearly don’t (you might want to check out the How to Be More Productive article I wrote ;p)

27. Everywhere you guys go, everyone, somehow, seems to know her (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: GOD)

28. She likes going out to clubs way too much

29. Going out on “girl’s night” is her specialty

30. She has many guy “best friends”

31. Lots of other girls hate her and despise her

32. Threatens you with ending her life if you break up with her

33. Posts pictures of her new car on social media

34. The caption of her new selfie is a deep, insightful quote by Eckhart Tolle

35. She flirts with you but is not willing to fuck you (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: EXPERT)

Why You Should Stay Away From an Attention Whore…

attention whore 2

Attention seeking girls are not mentally or emotionally okay and because of this factor, it might be a good idea to try and stay away from these types of girls.

It has been psychologically proven that people that have attention seeking tendencies(aka “attention whore”) have low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, hence, craving other people’s approval, ending up in getting their much-needed validation from other sources like Instagram likes or Facebook comments for example.

Attention seeking tendencies are caused by the brain being wired to equate extreme attention for survival and safety, which can be rooted all the way back to the first years of a human being’s life.

It All Starts as a Baby…

When a human being enters this world, it enters it as a weak, defenseless baby, thus needing as much help from the mother as possible in order to survive.

For that reason, newborns, are extremely dependent on getting their mother’s attention at all costs for survival purposes (This is how an attention whore is born).

If the newborn’s needs end up being neglected by the mother in the first years of its life then its brain begins to develop the belief system that going to whatever lengths to get attention is necessary in order to survive and thrive, thus, creating a new and “necessary” attention seeking behavior that accompanies them throughout their adulthood.

#Conclusion

After taking a look at these 35 signs, you must have a very clear understanding of the type of girl you are currently dealing with.

By now you should have the certainty if the girl you are seeing or talking to is indeed an attention whore or not, but let me tell you something…If you went out of your way to read this article, it is more than likely that she is an attention seeking individual.

Ultimately, it’s up to you to figure out if the girl you are seeing is, in fact, worth your time and commitment.

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