How to Know if a Girl is an Attention Whore: 35 Tell-Tale Signs

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We’ve all known this type of girl: 

The kind of girl that posts pictures of her sweet, adorable face and underneath writes a profound, thoughtful quote of an ancient philosopher she’s never heard of. You know her, right? …Me too…The infamous ATTENTION WHORE!

She’s hot, flirty, charismatic, funny, popular, and attention-seeking. She’s the type of girl that spends all of her time on Instagram and gets an immediate dopamine rush every time someone comments on one of her pictures. 

I’m 25 years old as I write this article and I am 100% certain that if I had known some of the signs I’m about to write below, I would have saved myself a lot of precious time.

Along with many frustrating “blue balls” incidents caused by multiple attention whores.

If you’re currently suspicious that the girl you’re seeing is an attention whore, but you aren’t 100% sure yet, maybe the following 35 signs will help you figure out if she is one or not, once and for all…

An attention whore does not change…

I have met many attention whores throughout the years and let me tell you something…

As much as you’d like to think that they can change or perhaps that you could change them, let me be the one to burst your bubble, girls of this caliber never, EVER, change.

Once an attention whore, always an attention whore!

The 35 Signs a Girl is an Attention Whore

ATTENTION WHORE

1.Snaps a selfie every five minutes


2. Most often has more male friends than female friends


3. Forever “online”


4. Her ass photos are public property


5. The only pictures on her feed are of her, and her, and her again!


7. Gets involved in all the online drama


8. Loves to play the victim


9. Will often fake incompetence just to get attention


10. Snaps a pic at every place she visits


11. She captions her pic “I know I look ugly but… whatever” (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: LEGENDARY)


12. She writes on her posts #nomakeup knowing she looks good cuz of the convenient lighting and filter


13. Tells her problems to just about everyone


14. She’s always at the center of a group-picture


15. She is nice to everyone because she wants their attention


16. If she’s not the center of attention at a gathering she’s immediately “bored” (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: BEGINNER)


17. Brags about how she makes guys pay for her


And The List Goes On…


18. Posts pics saying “I look so ugly” knowing she looks hot af


19. She mentions how many guys DM her and how “annoying” it is


20. She dances with your ALL of your boys at parties


21. Flirts with male workers to get free shit


22. Fishing for compliments is her number 1 priority, her self esteem depends on it.


23. Making you jealous is her number one priority


24. She often throws tantrums when things don’t go her way


25. Bribes you with sex


26. She says you work too much when you clearly don’t (you might want to check out the How to Be More Productive article I wrote ;p)


27. Everywhere you guys go, somehow, everyone seems to know of her. (usually not good things)


28. She lives in night clubs


29. She’s always the one initiating “girl’s night out”


30. She has many guy “best friends”


31. Won’t shut up about all the girls that hate her


32. Threatens you with ending her life if you break up with her


33. Posts pictures of her new car on social media.. and new dog, cat, purse, water bottle, absolutely everything new!


34. The caption of her new selfie is a deep, insightful quote by Eckhart Tolle


35. She flirts with you but is not willing to fuck you (ATTENTION WHORE LEVEL: EXPERT)

Why You Should Stay Away From an Attention Whore…

ATTENTION WHORE

Attention seeking girls are not mentally or emotionally stable.


It is widely known that people that have attention-seeking tendencies, aka “attention whore” have low self-esteem. Studies back up this claim.

The lack of self-confidence makes them crave other people’s approval, ending up in a constant need for likes and comments on social media.

They are validation vampires

Attention seeking tendencies are caused by the brain being wired to equate extreme attention for survival and safety, which can be rooted all the way back to the first years of a human being’s life.


It All Starts as a Baby…


Newborns, are incredibly dependent on getting their mother’s attention at all costs for survival purposes (This is how an attention whore is born).

If the newborn’s needs end up being neglected by the mother in the first years of its life, then its brain begins to develop the following belief system;

“I need to do whatever it takes to get the attention necessary to survive and thrive.”

Thus, creating a new and “necessary” attention-seeking behavior that accompanies them throughout their adulthood.

#Conclusion

After taking a look at these 35 signs, you must have a clear understanding of the type of girl you are currently dealing with.

By now, you should have the certainty that if the girl you are seeing is indeed an attention whore or not.

Let me tell you something…If you went out of your way to read this article, it is more than likely that she is an attention-seeking individual.

Ultimately, it’s up to you to figure out if this girl you are seeing is, in fact, worth your time and commitment.

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